Persuasion kryptonite and the power of silence

Persuasive power of silence or the kryptonite for salespeople: If there were a kryptonite for those who need to persuaded daily on a one to one basis that would be silence. There is a saying that “silence is golden” and nowhere else is that truer than in the persuasion process. Most salespeople who have to deal with silence get weak results just from no words coming from a client or perspective client because they do not know how to deal with it.

 

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The fear alone from the silence costs persuaders and companies plenty of money every day of the year.

 

Now you may think that silence on the part of a buyer or purchaser is a bad think but you may want to rethink that situation for a few moments. Buyers sometimes need silence to make their decision and your constant talking is stopping them from thinking, even worse it may show a lack of confidence in your product or service. The stall in thinking causes the buyer to now think about a few things and if you could step inside their mind you would probably hear:

 

“why is that guy or girl talking still I just need a second to work out the finances in my head”  and then “you know who talks too much, my cousin Jimmy and you know who will give me grief for getting this super charged widget Jimmy’s dad Steve now I don’t want to deal with Steve so how do I get out of buying this widget I will say I wanna think about it”.

 

Silence in the persuasive process one on one can be your best friend if you know how to set up the situation correctly. Maybe you learned covert hypnosis and or the ability to lead to the decision through the use of presuppositions and found how productive you could be from being silent.

 

Silence as a negotiation strategy

Do you really want to see how good a persuader is? You will know by how they deal with their own silence or the silence of the person or the people they need to get to make a change, write a check or to get an answer. You can literally use silence to negotiate on your behalf. The next time that you go to buy something after the number of the product or the service is rolled out just be quite for about 20 – 30 seconds and the seller or rookie persuader will find their kryptonite and will start dropping their price or start giving things away as a way to squash the silence.

 

Most sales people don’t realize how the silence can be their friend and how much pressure it puts on their buyer, people being persuaded or even a group. In general people don’t know how to deal with a quiet pause for as little as 15 seconds.

 

Persuasion home work:  

So you want to get people to your way of thinking? As a simple strategy the next time that you are asked a question just pause for a second or two and see what the reaction is by the person who is asking the question. You may see them get frustrated, annoyed, complaint or even surprised that you didn’t automatically react to the question or the request. Over time you will be able to wait longer between answering questions or even be able to become silent longer after asking a question.

 

A word of caution, you will want to use silence in low value conversations that do not matter not for items or conversations that matter. When someone asks you where you want to go to lunch would be a low value conversation. Now on the other hand if a significant other asks if you love them and you have told them yes before pausing to answer will cause some interesting issues.

 

Be patient with others in the persuasion process to learn more and how to become more effective, for most people instant knowledge does not ever happen.

 

Learning how to influence others to get results takes good reliable knowledge:

 

Now go implement!

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

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Stories and questions of a persuasion expert

Persuasive powers of communication: There are plenty of times where you need some persuasive power while dealing with others. You will want to be able to effectively influence the people around you in the best format possible to get your message out and then also get the man or the woman to your way of thinking.

 

When it comes to communicating and delivering your message there are two powerful forms of communication:

  1. 1.      Persuasive questions
  2. 2.      Stories that lead to influential actions

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Persuasive questions

One of the greatest skills that you can learn to communicate better is that of persuasive questions. Now there are plenty of questions that you can ask and hey can range from open ended to closed ended or they may have a great length to them. No matter how a question is asked the person is listening has to think about what the question was but they don’t have to answer it.

 

Its not just enough the question has a powerful hook the person who is asking the persuasive question must know when to be quiet. Just as the question has a sense of power the silence may have even more power than the question because the person has to think about what was asked or how to respond. There is a age old mantra in the sales world and that is “the first person to talk loses” and part of the persuasive questioning abilities comes form knowing when to be quiet.

 

You will want to be quiet after every question and that how you know when to not talk.

 

A persuasive question looks for an answer to an area that will affect the decision, now this is different from a fact question.

 

A fact question would be:

 

How many widgets did you ship last month?

 

A persuasive question may fall along the lines of:

 

If you have any work done with this project and it’s not performed correctly are you completely ok with that?

 

….. even if the competing job comes in for less?

 

It makes the other person or people think and then they have to talk it out if you know how to get them talking. From there you may want to watch the other person’s body language or even ask more questions that would allow you to reverse on the potential client.

 

Just know that when you ask questions the right way you will find that your influence may do more work for you than what you would think.

 

Persuasive power of stories:

Stories are the way that people communicated when there was no writing and whether a man or woman knows how to read they can convey a story.

 

Now your challenge is to wrap facts into the story or strong points to make it effective. You can do this by writing down your facts first and the adding the elements of the story that would make the story draw out emotions or challenge the listener.  

 

You may want to use covert hypnosis in the story to be more persuasive and really take some time to engineer the story to be more effective.  

 

Persuasive story with emotions and vocal power

While telling a story it becomes more persuasive the more that it comes to life and that can come from the way that it is delivered including vocal inflection, the use of body language.

 

Persuasive stories can be repeated later on down the road but can get people to take action after the story has been told with ease by the teller because it is highly memorable.

 

The power of stories can bond people together or can get people to fall asleep. A good story will captivate people, draw them in and then get them to take an action or ask a question. Those 2 things are important:

  • ·         Ask a question – one that you have wanted them to ask
  • ·         Take an action – one that you have built into the story

 

Joseph Campbell has extensive knowledge on telling stories and breaking them down so that you can engineer a story to work better for you. You can get his books and dvd’s on amazon.

 

When a persuasive story is told the right way the action needed will be taken in the time frame that is designed by the teller.

 

Learning how to craft persuasive story takes time and patience and plenty of practice.

 

When you are persuading others it’s a good idea to practice your message prior if possible to find any loopholes that may trap you.

 

Practice persuasive questions

For you to practice persuasive questions you will want to ask people who have no ties to your product, industry or your way of thought to get a true reaction that you can gauge and this allows you to know what type of reaction that you will get.

 

Leaning how to influence others can be the key to more income, a new boyfriend or girlfriend or even that imported car that you always wanted.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments or questions about persuasive questions and stories.

 

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Expert persuasion of voice

Expert persuasion with voice control: Persuaders have plenty of things to think about and deal with while working on projects to get to a “yes”.

 

Persuasion fails when these issues happen

  • ·         The call speeds up
  • ·         The call slows down
  •           Lack of confidence
  • ·         The vocal patterns of questions and statements are wrong

 

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Persuasion failure because of speed

There are a few typical issues that happen while people are in “sales mode” and one of the first things is that the speed or pace of the appointment or call speeds up in the mind of the persuader and when that happens they tend to start pushing by putting pressure on the buyer, person or people involved with the project.

 

This impatience can cost sales because it is not persuasive it almost gives the feel of desperation to the buyer or investor. Everything seemed fine and then the pace of the appointment changed, the body language changes and then the voice changes.

 

Persuasion failure because of pace

The opposite of the sales call speeding up is when the salesperson or the persuader loses steam and the call starts to stall the tempo is lost and then once again there is the feel of desperation and either there is discounting involved or plenty of stalls along with negotiation. The worst of all the dreaded “I wanna think about it” may occur.  

 

This can be because the salesperson or the persuader didn’t do their homework about the client, service or product that is being sold. These issues lead to frustration and once again the buyer or client can feel the pressure and then they back away.

 

Persuasive power of voice

Now one of the items that you can work on to persuade more effectively is your voice. When there is stress in the persuasion process your voice can fail you by giving away your lack of confidence or exposing that you are confident.

 

When men or women have confidence you can feel it in their voice and also in their body language and or nonverbal communicaton. Their shoulders are up they move with smooth flow and they are relaxed.

 

Your voice is entirely different when you are relaxed vs when you are stressed or frustrated and that isnt always a good thing.

 

When you lack confidence in your abilities your voice will “leak” your position and when that happens you lose your ability to persuade effectively.

You can hear this lack of confidence on:

  • ·         The phone
  • ·         Recordings
  • ·         Live in person

 

Persuasive voice and how to get one

One of the ways to verify your persuasive voice is to record you talking something that you are passionate about or something that you are really familiar with. You will want to put that recording to the side. By the way this persuasion exercise works the best with video because you can also watch the body language of your won confidence.

 

Now on the other hand you can listen to where you lose your persuasive voice by recording you talking about something that you don’t know about and once again this persuasion exercise works the best when you use video vs just talking on audio recording.

 

The best way to make this work is to talk about the investment about or the price or larger numbers than what you are used to and say them over and over again. Now this exercise may sound funny at first but once you hear what you sound like on audio or see your body language on video you will want to practice these items to increase your persuasive selling skills fairly quickly.

 

You will want to keep these recordings whether audio or video to see how your growth as a persuader has come along. Just know that you will be amazed at what you sound like  and look like on video but get over it, its what you sound like and look like. The good news is that you always have room for improvement.

 

Learning the skills needed to influence others can take your abilities to the next level:

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the

Expert persuasion of voice control:

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

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The persuasion paradox

Expert persuasion advice: Persuasion experts can teach you many things that can help improve your life and or your sales career. Knowing what works and does not work or is not effective while persuading others happens when you live what you have learned.

 

Its applied knowledge that helps…

 

All too often salespeople who are learning to persuade take things too far and end up costing the outcome of the event and they lose.

 

When too many principals of persuasion are combined the person who they are used on can feel that something is wrong but they don’t quite know why.

 

New sales people live through the persuaders paradox and what that really means is that with all of the techniques and strategies that they have as tools that they can use it may not be clear to them the time when to introduce them or how many to use.

 

The persuaders paradox is not knowing what strategy or tactic to use or it may even be that what they have learned is not adapted to what they are persuading for. In essence either the sales person uses too much of their persuasive material or they do not use it the right way. It may very well be that they do both by using too much combined with not adapting it.

 

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Persuasion experts understand timing

Give a rookie persuader enough time out in the field and they will develop a sense of timing for what needs to be said or even the questions that need to be asked and they also know when to do so.

 

Sometimes it isn’t even about saying something it’s about knowing when to ignore a statement or even knowing when to be quiet. Silence may be one of the best persuasion tools that the experts use because it allows the mind of the perspective client to catch up or the silence puts weight on them to answer a question.

 

New or rookie persuaders have a tough time knowing what technique or strategy to introduce and they may use something out of order and then confuse the potential client. The new persuader also has a difficult time keeping their mouth shut and knowing when to be quiet.  

 

Persuasion experts expose common mistakes

There is a time to be an overachiever and there is a time to not be one. Now for some people when they are in the learning stages of persuasion they read every book , listen to every cd, attend persuasion seminars, watch dvd’s on influence. Now it’s a cool thing to learn as much as possible but there is also a point where there is too much confusion on how what they have learned works in the real world.

 

Rolling out a persuasion strategy and or tactic may not look like what was taught by the coach or the expert persuader, it may take some modifications and some massaging to make it effective for the industry or the type of client that the salesperson or the persuader is in.  

 

Now this is where role play comes in. You would want to decide what strategy or tactic that you would use to deal with a given set of circumstances. The best way to work these issues out is to video tape them and no matter how painful it is to watch take notes and determine what you think would work and what you think would not.

 

The more that you just freestyle and relax while you role play persuasion techniques and strategies the more of what you are doing will be effective. This is the best point to let your creative juices flow. There is no wrong answer, if you feel like something is working just go with it. If you feel like something is not working keep going until you feel like you get traction and are moving in a positive direction.

 

Your videotaped session will rewarding no matter how good or bad you may have thought that you were. Many times some of the best ideas for implementation will come from the biggest train wrecks while presenting. This type of role play gets easier over time and after a while may get addictive.

 

Persuaders paradox unwrapped:

The more that you make the persuasion patterns your own the easier they are to use in real life. Role play will not be enough you will have to use what you have come up with out in the field. There are two ways to go about this:

  1. 1.      Implement everything – this is a surefire recipe for disaster
  2. 2.      Implement slowly – When you start with just one idea you will know when to use it and how it works. Best of all you have the chance to learn how to time it instead of having too much material.

 

Be patient as you learn to expertly persuade others as it is a skill that is not something you “get” overnight.

 

Learning how to persuade others can be fun and informative but you must learn the basics first:

 

As Always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the persuaders paradox.

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

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Expert persuasion skills and being first

Persuasion, marketing and sales training:

When it comes to persuasion, sales training or even marketing there are times where the most simple statement  or statements can change the way you think about what you do.

 

Persuasion and or sales training sometimes is complicated just for the confusion that it creates so that coaching can be charged for.

 

Sometimes the training works and sometimes it doesn’t

 

Marketing can sometimes be the same way in the fact that there is all sorts of jargon or technical terms.

 

“There is no second place in persuasion, sales or marketing”

If you were to hear: “There is no second place in persuasion”, “There is no second place in sales” or even “There is no second place in marketing” how does that change your perspective, strategies and or tactics when dealing with potential clients, planning or the story that you are going to tell or how hard you are going to work.

 

If you are a persuader or in sales what do you have to do to ensure that every call that you run or attempt has 100% of your attention or in other words are you going with your job with passion and purpose?

 

If you have marketing that needs to be done are you really doing the research or are you just guessing? Did you run split tests or add the promotional code to your literature? Is there are way to look at the marketing piece and give it just a bunch more power of even a little more?

 

Persuasion, sales training and marketing costs plenty as it is, why not do everything that you can to do it the right way?

 

The question or statement of  “there is no second place in….” should really put into perspective what you and your sales team is up against. If you are in marketing the same goes for you.

 

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Persuasion, sales and marketing supercharged!

  • ·         What is it that you are or are not doing when it comes to your business?

 

  • ·         There are plenty of things that you know that should be done?

 

  • ·         Did you take time to write out the story and get the elements of persuasion down to be effective

 

  • ·         What do you not know how to do, or what do you not know how to do well?

 

  • ·         Who do you need to get in contact with to make the changes necessary to increase your sales or even the effectiveness of your marketing?

 

  • ·         How will you know if you have made the changes, how often will you check to make sure you are on the right path?

 

  • ·         What changes will you make when you are off path?

 

  • ·         For sales have you taped your role plays, asking your questions or even practicing rolling prices on your prices.

 

  • ·         For your marketing piece did you show it to people who may or may not be in your target market or did it just look good for you?

 

  • ·         Is the atmosphere around you relaxed while you are working with the person or people that you need to work with.

 

How to increase persuasive power and sales with practicing

Learning how to persuade or sell more requires dedication in order to get to the top. Have you practiced like you were supposed to do?

 

Whether you have been out in the field for years or not do you know what it will take to just get a few more people closed or sold out of 100? Have you had people watch your presentation from outside your industry? So you don’t have people pay someone to listen and ask questions about what you do. If your practicing doesn’t cost you now it will cost you plenty in the future.

 

Are you asking the tough questions?

 

How to increase marketing with asking questions

Most people in business think that they are a legend in their own minds and because they came up with the idea it means that it is perfect. The reality is most marketing pieces suck and reason is that most people look for beauty in the ad or the marketing piece and all too often the piece is poorly written or the ad is too perfect.

 

The same goes for sales scripts…

 

Most ads were written by people who went to college and really have not ever had to sell to figure out the words that flow well for the buyer. The elements of persuasion just are not there. Sure they win awards and are a thing of beauty but that doesn’t matter unless they convert and most of the time they do not. Most times plain is better. It’s not that a college education in marketing is bad it’s just that there is a difference between real world and what is taught in theory…

 

Those are two separate things…

 

Once you write an ad take it to a few people and let them tear it apart best off show the piece to kids and they will tell you if they understand what is going on. The average person in the United States reads and comprehends at less than an 8Th grade education. So what that means to you is your message must be very specific and understandable because you have once change and the market is very unforgiving when it comes to saying “yes” or “no” to what you do.

 

So how does all of this relate to what you do if you have to sell or persuade?

 

Everything because many times people get caught up in what they think work because its got glitz and glam…

 

How to persuade and increase sales with others opinions

People love to be asked for their opinion, just ask the question and let them rip..

 

The more that you react and try to defend your position the more that you will lose..

 

Just let them talk even if you don’t like what they have to say…

 

If you are defending what you have done you are wasting your time..

 

Ask plenty of questions that will help you clarify the wrongness of what you have done.

 

Its ok to also ask what they liked about what you did, if they say nothing thank them because if you pay for the spot or the ad and it doesn’t pull or convert you would be mad and out money. Be an adult and take what they have said and use it to get better. This advice works for marketing or even sales.

 

If you do not let the person know you wrote the ad they will be harder on you and that is what you want. If you want to take it one step further let the viewer know you paid plenty of money and you want to just “test” the piece they will tear it apart even more.

 

There is no second place only first loser in business you must do what you can to get better and either be ahead of the market or give up. The same for sales, for every good salesman or woman there is 10 people trying to learn what they can do to take your clients and the bad thing is for the most part the only thing they have is lower price…

 

That will kill their business over time…

 

The good news for you is that you have practiced and have taken the “lumps” that go along with figuring out what it takes to not be the guy or girl who loses through bad marketing or horrible persuasion techniques.

 

Persuasion and selling require patience

The great equalizer in persuasion of any kind whether spoken or even written is being calm and relaxed. When people feel rushed the answer is normally “no”. When people are relaxed they are easier to persuade because time in essence slows down. Make sure that what you do is really cool really easy..

 

Have a little fun and laugh more often.

Persuasion can be fun to learn and it easy to do is it not?

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasion for first place.

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

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How to sell more learning from infomercials

Sales training and implementation: Many times sales people look to sales training to help them out and increase their sales.  There are times where a salesperson just needs to see another sales person do what they have learned:

 

For you to increase your ability to get more business you will have to change up some of your processes and look at things that you may not have considered before.

 

Sales training and infomercials: Of all of the places that you can learn how to sell more from some of them just may be free but you will have to stay up for a little late night adventure. While watching the infomercial there are a few things that you will want to watch out for:

  • ·         What order they present the information in
  • ·         How they package the message or frame the story
  • ·         How the interactions work out between those in the infomercial

 

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Sales training to learn how to sell more from an infomercial

As you watch a persuasive infomercial know and understand that the people who have scripted these shows understand the principals of persuasion and know how to get people to buy. You will want to watch the order that the information is presented in. You will see that they talk about a few items first.

  1. 1.      They reveal a pain that you didn’t know or feel that you had
  2. 2.      They aggravate the pain and make it worse
  3. 3.      The show the pain can be alleviated
  4. 4.      Show the product and how it was made
  5. 5.      Give an offer
  6. 6.      Stack the cool and make the offer cooler
  7. 7.      Take the order

 

Many times sales people forget that they have what looks like a commodity in the minds of the buyer, they say the same things as their competition and really just throw technical information.

 

Infomercials and sales training, how to package the message

When the producers set up the infomercial they know and understand how to make the story line flow. If there are people interacting the whole conversation is really cool and really easy. The people will seem like friends.

 

One of the best infomercials that does this really well is one of the first 30 minute sets for the magic bullet. In the series for this blender there are friends who get up in the morning and talk slightly about their hangovers from the night before. The interaction almost feels real and as a viewer it is really easy to get sucked in to what the conversation is because for the most part most people can relate.

If you can make your buyer or perspective client relate to the situation it will make it easier for them to take your recommendations of what to buy.

 

How to sell more, show them how they could use it

One of the things that the infomercials do is that they give plenty of examples of how the viewer can use the product and while some of the ideas that are presented may sound ridiculous it starts to set the stage that there is versatility and you as the buyer may start thinking to yourself “yes I really do need this product”.

 

This is where the infomercial gets the perspective client engaged with so many ideas.

 

Next up is the money…

 

How much would you expect to pay for this item… and the number is really high and you are thinking “there is no way I would pay this much for this product”

 

…and then they say well it would not be x amount, y amount or even z amount its this much money but it gets better we can separate it out into 3 easy payments of…

 

… and we can even rush ship it to you….

 

Once again you think who would want this rush shipped what am I missing out on.

 

Priming and selling more

When the infomercial starts raising the price on the object they are starting with a high umber so that when they say the lower number your brain says to itself “its really not that much compared to the super huge number that they used earlier” this number game helps prepare your mind for what you will really pay.

 

When the amount is broken down into smaller payments you get the effect once again.

 

The rush shipping is set up for social proof that other people want this product now no matter how strange it may be.

 

Then the added step…

 

If operators are busy please call back…

 

This is one more layer of social proof. It may very well be that there is only one person answering the phone calls.

How to sell more with infomercials and your products

Now you must take what you have learned about the infomercials and then implement the ideas into your industry or service.

 

One last item is stacking the cool. This is a term that Frank Kern uses to explain that you add more bonus items to the project or service to give the feeling of more…

 

…. Maybe an extended warranty

 

….. a few hours of coaching

 

….. an evaluation of a product or service

 

….. 6 months of help desk

 

People love free stuff just go somewhere where even junk items are being handed out and there will be a near riot to get the product that really has no value.

 

You job when stacking the cool is to give an item(s) away that is really cool.

 

Infomercials and making more money through sales:

Whatever infomercial that you watch to learn how to make more sales jot down some ideas as the show is going then go back later and figure out how to make the idea work for you. You may even want to have a brainstorming session with your sales team and watch the show together you may just come up with some new ideas of how to sell more product using some principals of persuasion that you have learned.

 

There are plenty of places to learn about persuasion, this CD set will give you the foundation of what you need to know when it comes to the Science of influence.

 

As Always I would like to thank you for your comments and or questions about How to sell more using infomercials:

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

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How to sell more avoid these sales mistakes

 

How to sell more: There are plenty of great things about persuasion and sales training but there are also some evils that can hurt your sales process or even your ability to influence others.

 

Most people go to these courses to help their abilities and techniques and that is part of the problem but it doesn’t have anything to do with the trainers or instructors.

 

First off learning how to sell more requires a bit of patience and some trial and error. Notice that it says some trial and error.

 

Learning how to sell more means you can beat objections like I wanna think about it.

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Common sales mistakes from training

The first mistake that salespeople make when they learn how to sell more or get ideas from persuasion is to implement too much at one time. This biting off more than what can be chewed causes a few issues.

  • ·         Decreases confidence in abilities
  • ·         Changes up a familiar process
  • ·         Creates confusion in the buying process for both parties

 

How to make sales and persuasion training work for you

To get the most out of whatever sales training or influence courses that you take there are a few things to remember as you implement what you have learned.

  1. 1.      Keep a journal of ideas
  2. 2.      Implement slowly while on top
  3. 3.      Know when to use what you have learned

 

How to sell more with a journal

Taking notes while training is not just a good idea it’s a great idea. The best way to do so is with a real journal and not just a note pad. Now there are many thoughts out there as to how to take notes but whatever way you take the notes make sure that you can read what you write. Keep a list of ideas that can be implemented but remember to not implement all at the same time. If something doesn’t work for you after a few attempts keep the notes but stop using the new strategy, tactic or script.

 

How to sell more by implementing what you have learned

Take some time to go back through your notes and put a priority on the items from what you have learned. If at all possible figure out where you will put what you learned into use. They key here is to look at what you have learned and figure out how you can make the information work for you.

 

How to sell by knowing what to use

When you attend sales courses, read books, listen to cd’s, watch dvd’s or do anything else when it comes to sales training there is plenty to learn. Now just like a mechanic has a great deal of tools people who persuade others for their livelihood develop libraries of information and possible items that can be used to influenced others to your way of thinking. Its your job to learn when to use what you have learned and that happens with time and patience. There is only so much you can do with scripting and role play. Being live out in the field makes all of the difference.

 

Just remember know that it takes time to learn what to add to a sales presentation and doing too much can cause a catastrophe.

 

Learning the science of influence can take your sales ability to the next level, here is the best place to learn.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about how to sell more by avoiding these common sales mistakes.

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Persuasion of opinions:

Persuasion of opinions: Persuading others often stops when the person trying to persuade others has a belief about the person, group or situation before the process even begins.

 

How many times have salespeople lost the persuasion of opinions before they even started within their own mind?

 

How many times have you lost to the persuasion of opinions on a service or project before you have started and you don’t even have to be in sales?

 

Persuade yourself before persuading others: One of the first lessons for sales people is to not judge the person or the situation by the looks of the area or the person. You must first have the belief in yourself and in your abilities before you begin or you will have a tough time getting others to your idea or way of thinking.

 

There are many misconceived notions about how people are when they do or do not have money. Many times salespeople will look at a person and guess what they have in their pocket.

 

Some think that a person has money because of their material possessions:

  • ·         A house
  • ·         A car or multiple cars
  • ·         The clothing that a person wears
  • ·         The type of job or business that the person works for

 

Today here are two videos your job is to make a judgment about what will happen with the people who are interacting in the video clips?

 

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So how does this help you to persuade others or learn how to use some influence when it comes to dealing with other people.   

 

Now both of these clips are people singing. You are to judge the contestant before they start to sing. How well do you think that they will do just based upon the reactions of the judges. Now you can stop  

 

The second thing you are to do is to figure out what you would do if you were on the stage. What would you have done differently to persuade the judges before you started if it were your presentation.

 

 

 

Now that you have watched the videos what did you think of the performers? If you had seen the videos before what were your first thoughts.

 

Most people who make the snap judgments about a situation miss out. Now this may happen if you need to persuade or influence others or even if you have a job that isn’t in sales.

 

How many times do you think that you have missed out on something cool or fantastic because of what you thought the situation was going to be?

 

Now the crowd reacted in a certain way and there was a few seconds while the singer or singers Chris Rene, Charlotte & Jonathan started there was the hope in the minds of the crowd and then the singers opened up and their voices took over.

 

Now when watching the X factor, Britain’s got talent  or American Idol you have the opportunity to guess about participants before they start. Now sometimes you are surprised and sometimes you just may be right about the talents of the singers. It’s when you are wrong that hurts more than when you are right.  

 

Persuasive sales skills, techniques and abilities require that you understand your own thoughts first.

 

Want to learn how to persuade others better? Here is a great place to start!

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments or questions about persuasion of opinions.

 

Now go implement!

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

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How to sell more make your client a hero

How to sell more make your client a hero: If you work for a business you are a salesperson you may have heard the term “make your client the hero”. This expression doesn’t help you if you don’t know how to help the situation.

 

Making your client the hero may be as easy as making the process or the buying situation easy for them.

 

One of the challenges for buyers of any product is that they do not want to look dumb or they do not want to do anything in the eyes of their peers that would cause them to look like they made a bad decision.

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Salespeople can make their client the hero

If you are in sales one of the best ways to make your buyers look smart and ultimately look like a hero buy making your explanations easy to understand.

 

Now this idea of making your products or services easy to understand may cause you to believe that you are already doing this but chances are you are not making your explanations easy for a buyer to understand especially if you are in a technical industry.

 

The best explanations are the ones that are short and do not have a ton of technical terms. It is a good idea to remember that most people in the United States have less than a 8th grade reading and comprehension level and if you trigger the thought that makes them look dumb they may shut down and you would not even know why.

 

If you are explaining something and you lost the man or the woman they are not listening to what you are saying they are just hoping you will stop soon so that they can tell you “I wanna think about it” or “no”.  

 

Ways to make your client the hero

You can make your client the hero by practicing the ways that you explain terms or ideas for you product or service to a few people who are not in your industry, if they have questions or concerns you will need to refine the script.

 

If you have some sort of brochure you would want to do the same thing, showing people from outside your industry what you have will answer so many questions of why someone chooses you over another person or not.

 

A huge thing to remember is that you are in your industry and have heard the terms and ideas probably a million times. The person who is new may have some “silly” or “dumb” questions that you get all day long. Part of your job is to answer those “silly” or “dumb” questions like it was the first time that you heard them. If you act put off by having to answer the same question over and over again you will have to leave civilization as you know it. Even if you go to work in a drive up window you would have to ask the same question over and over again and that would be “you want to upsize your meal for a quarter more”? Ok so you want to be a Rockstar? You would have to sing the same songs over and over again.

 

Remember make everything that you do with your clients and potential clients as easy as possible and they will repay you when they don’t have to look dumb by buying your product and or services.

 

One last thought if you think this idea is too simple. Chances are your competition doesn’t even take a look at this idea look at their product or literature in the same way. Just know if it’s complicated and not easy to understand you are miles ahead. Make your process really easy and you will be good to go by making your “client the hero” and they can make a good decision.  

 

So you want to persuade and influence people better? You will need a understanding of how people think and you can get it here:

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about making your client the hero!

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

Now go implement!

 

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Persuasive power of really cool really easy

Persuasive power of really cool really easy: When salespeople deal with clients or potential clients it helps to keep in mind being on the other side of the table.

 

When was the last time that you wanted a difficult process or have to work through a hassle. Now this all sounds simple and may not sound like a persuasive sales tip or some earth shattering advice but it may just be for some people.

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Now one of the best things that you can do is to record your sales process in video and do two things:

  • ·         Listen to your presentation and take notes as to what you think went well and what needs help
  • ·         Watch your presentation and look for items that may be out of order without the sound on.

 

Yes it may take some time to first listen to your presentation and then watch it without sound but what you will see and hear may change your mind about the way that you work on influencing others.   

 

There is a saying that “persuasion happens in the silence” and that is only true when you set of the silence correctly.

 

The idea of really cool really easy

To explain the idea of really cool really easy you first will have to take a look at a half truth when it comes to sales training. You may have heard the saying “whoever has the highest energy in a meeting wins” but it isn’t over the top energy

 

When you put enough excitement in your presentation that is not over the top you have an easier chance of the people listening to you.. This persuasive power doesn’t happen with a canned script it happens with you being real and your realness does shine through but that is only the first part of the equation.

 

The second part of the equation is really easy. Making the sales process throughout from start to finish really cool really easy takes away some of the resistance. The key here is that not all of the resistance is taken away but some of it may just as well be enough to give you a better chance vs someone who is a competitor. When you can make your process seem like time has stopped and not what the potential clients are expecting it throws the buyer off guard enough for them to relax.

 

Before anyone buys anything they have a preconceived belief about how the experience is going to be. The potential client comes to the table believing one thing and every other wanna be persuader lets the potential client to live up to that expectation.

 

Just think for a second about how you would want your experience to be and make it like that for your buyer.

 

Really cool really easy is something that most salespeople forget because they are all caught up in trying to be perfect but that doesn’t allow the salesperson to be real and then the comfort goes away.

 

What if you are a persuader who isn’t in sales

You still have to opportunity to help the people that you meet and make the process for them really cool and really easy. You will see that people will react better and will be more willing to do what you ask instead of the resistance block being there in place.

 

Learn how to persuade others better and more effectively

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasion and making your process really cool and really easy.

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

Now go implement!

 

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