Persuasion and the first rule of vocal rapport

Persuasion and the first rule of rapport: Every effective persuader looks for any advantage that they can get their hands on that will work. The broken or bad strategies and tactics of old are known by buyers and they even will tell them to you as they are being rolled out.

 

Rapport and mirroring are misunderstood elements of NLP that cause many problems from persuaders because they are done wrong. Mirroring men or women is effective when done the right way. Building rapport can be effective but when the other person has issues with you rapport can only go so far.

 

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The first rule of rapport

The first rule of rapport is really two items and that is a mirroring action of the other person and then the use of voice. Similarities in not just a mirroring action but also the voice will help you gain rapport with the person that you are meeting with and in the end may help your persuasive abilities.

 

On the phone the first rule of rapport does help and that is to talk at about the same volume and or speed as the person that you are on the phone with since that is really the only way that you can mirror them. Just remember that your actions for nonverbal and vocal mirroring should be similar but not exactly the same.

 

You may be wondering if people will think you are a fraud but the reality is that most people are so caught up in their own world they will not even pay attention.

 

Rapport gone wrong

Now you may do everything that you can to mirror the man or the woman that you want to persuade but if you do something wrong such as talking too fast or too loud you may have that person walk away.

 

New salespeople have this issue when they get too excited about the product or service that they sell and this creates a mismatch. Over excitement about selling a product and uneasiness of the buyer will cause a “no” or an “I wanna think about it”.

 

The same problems with rapport may happen if the hopeful persuader talks too low or too slow compared to the person who that are hoping to influence.

 

Persuasion, rapport and similarities

Nonverbally you know when a man or woman is in rapport with you through pacing and leading. When you are leading the person will do similar actions that you do like folding your arms or shaking heads in a similar action, when you are pacing they are the one who sets the tone for you. You can do the same with you voice if you slowly start building the speed or slowing how fast you are talking or even with the volume.

 

You have the most amount of persuasive power as the leader instead of the pacer so it’s important to remember that you should keep “time” on your pacing and leading so that you spend more time in “charge”.

 

Remember that the persuasion doesn’t always happen instantly and in most instances it takes time and patience.

 

Learning how to influence others is a great skill to learn not just for business but also for personal life.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasion and the first rule of rapport.

 

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Persuasive negotiation strategy

Persuasive negotiation and discounting: If you are in sales there are plenty of opportunities to learn from the people that you buy from and every transaction that you make. Many times the people you work with ask for a discount or a concession and then there are times that some buyers do not ask for either. So what is your negotiation strategy when the potential client asks for a discount off of your price?

 

That’s right have you thought up front about what your persuasive negotiation strategy is?

 

Now most of the time sales people or even those who persuade like an expert have the buyer ask for a discount or a concession on the price.

 

A standard discount for some is to use a set percentage but that may be a mistake. The reason using a standard discount may be a problem is because it seems too thought out and it also looks like it’s a standard. Because the discount seems standard can trigger some issues in the mind of a buyer and that creates issues for you.

 

If you telegraph what you do or what your “play” is the buyer knows what you are up to and then because of that they know how to play you or take your ability to negotiate out.

 

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Now if you are in sales the chances are good you are paid on commissions and your job is to persuade effectively so that you make the most out of each transaction and bring the most back to your company.

 

Persuasive negotiating like and an expert

The problem and challenge of using a set flat percentage like 5% is that for one it may seem like it’s too large of a number to take off of a product and or service. If there is an exact 5% there is a chance for another flat 5% and that is where your problem is.  

 

When you use a number or percentage that is less you have a chance of not having the buyer think that there is another flat rate discount or negotiation round to go through. Now that most volleys or going back and forth for an item usually go through 3 rounds, sometimes more and then sometimes less.

 

So once again what is your strategy for working around the flat percentage rate along with not giving up too much money for your product, service and or company the company that you work for? Or in another way what type of discounts will you work out in advance so that you know what you are up against.

 

Now if 5% is too much of a discount and it doesn’t seem like your prices are tight just how much can you discount and still seem like it is enough for the buyer to move forward?

 

The answer is anything less than 5% but with a fraction added to the number.

 

So you may choose something like 4.37% because it sounds and is more exact.

 

Now you also have a few more things going for you when you must work out some details with the buyer. If you have an exact number like 4.37% to work with then if you need to go through a next round of negotiation to get the buyer to move forward you can choose a next percentage like 3.12%. If you have the need to go through a third go round of negotiation then the next number or multiplier that you would  be able to use like .89% .

 

Persuasive power of getting agreements

No matter what type of product or service that you sell or provide if you are going through negotiations its best to secure that you are going to get a decision for doing so. Now this may sound like it’s a basic item that should not need to be covered but it is. You must always secure a decision that you will get a “yes” or “no” so that the buyer doesn’t give you the “I wanna think about it” funny business or use an excuse of having to talk to someone.

 

In order to make sure that you get the commitment up front you have to explain the terms of you negotiating the price and or concessions. Having a person answer with “I will get back to you” should have been discussed before and should not be an acceptable answer.

 

Persuasive negotiating and dangers  

Now any time that you work out a persuasive negotiation strategy in advance there are a few dangers:

  • ·         The persuasive negotiation doesn’t feel real so it doesn’t work
  • ·         The persuasive negotiation is too complicated so it doesn’t work

 

When you work with others in a business setting if you seem too polished you will build automatic resistance against you and your message. The setting mist be comfortable in order to make this process work.

 

Now when the sales process or negotiations are too complicated it’s difficult to be flexible and  make the necessary considerations that you could do if things were a bit easier.

 

In order for your persuasive negotiations to be effective you will have to work the numbers out a few times. Beside having a routine number for discounts you may want to have items that you can throw in as part of what you do instead of discounting possibly upgrades but once again get your commitments up front while you still have some power.

 

Learning how to persuade others takes time and planning but you also need the right tool to learn the principals of influence.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasive negotiating.

 

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Stories and questions of a persuasion expert

Persuasive powers of communication: There are plenty of times where you need some persuasive power while dealing with others. You will want to be able to effectively influence the people around you in the best format possible to get your message out and then also get the man or the woman to your way of thinking.

 

When it comes to communicating and delivering your message there are two powerful forms of communication:

  1. 1.      Persuasive questions
  2. 2.      Stories that lead to influential actions

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Persuasive questions

One of the greatest skills that you can learn to communicate better is that of persuasive questions. Now there are plenty of questions that you can ask and hey can range from open ended to closed ended or they may have a great length to them. No matter how a question is asked the person is listening has to think about what the question was but they don’t have to answer it.

 

Its not just enough the question has a powerful hook the person who is asking the persuasive question must know when to be quiet. Just as the question has a sense of power the silence may have even more power than the question because the person has to think about what was asked or how to respond. There is a age old mantra in the sales world and that is “the first person to talk loses” and part of the persuasive questioning abilities comes form knowing when to be quiet.

 

You will want to be quiet after every question and that how you know when to not talk.

 

A persuasive question looks for an answer to an area that will affect the decision, now this is different from a fact question.

 

A fact question would be:

 

How many widgets did you ship last month?

 

A persuasive question may fall along the lines of:

 

If you have any work done with this project and it’s not performed correctly are you completely ok with that?

 

….. even if the competing job comes in for less?

 

It makes the other person or people think and then they have to talk it out if you know how to get them talking. From there you may want to watch the other person’s body language or even ask more questions that would allow you to reverse on the potential client.

 

Just know that when you ask questions the right way you will find that your influence may do more work for you than what you would think.

 

Persuasive power of stories:

Stories are the way that people communicated when there was no writing and whether a man or woman knows how to read they can convey a story.

 

Now your challenge is to wrap facts into the story or strong points to make it effective. You can do this by writing down your facts first and the adding the elements of the story that would make the story draw out emotions or challenge the listener.  

 

You may want to use covert hypnosis in the story to be more persuasive and really take some time to engineer the story to be more effective.  

 

Persuasive story with emotions and vocal power

While telling a story it becomes more persuasive the more that it comes to life and that can come from the way that it is delivered including vocal inflection, the use of body language.

 

Persuasive stories can be repeated later on down the road but can get people to take action after the story has been told with ease by the teller because it is highly memorable.

 

The power of stories can bond people together or can get people to fall asleep. A good story will captivate people, draw them in and then get them to take an action or ask a question. Those 2 things are important:

  • ·         Ask a question – one that you have wanted them to ask
  • ·         Take an action – one that you have built into the story

 

Joseph Campbell has extensive knowledge on telling stories and breaking them down so that you can engineer a story to work better for you. You can get his books and dvd’s on amazon.

 

When a persuasive story is told the right way the action needed will be taken in the time frame that is designed by the teller.

 

Learning how to craft persuasive story takes time and patience and plenty of practice.

 

When you are persuading others it’s a good idea to practice your message prior if possible to find any loopholes that may trap you.

 

Practice persuasive questions

For you to practice persuasive questions you will want to ask people who have no ties to your product, industry or your way of thought to get a true reaction that you can gauge and this allows you to know what type of reaction that you will get.

 

Leaning how to influence others can be the key to more income, a new boyfriend or girlfriend or even that imported car that you always wanted.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments or questions about persuasive questions and stories.

 

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Persuasion expert Scott Sylvan Bell shares Stories and questions of a persuasion expert  

Expert persuasion of voice

Expert persuasion with voice control: Persuaders have plenty of things to think about and deal with while working on projects to get to a “yes”.

 

Persuasion fails when these issues happen

  • ·         The call speeds up
  • ·         The call slows down
  •           Lack of confidence
  • ·         The vocal patterns of questions and statements are wrong

 

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Persuasion failure because of speed

There are a few typical issues that happen while people are in “sales mode” and one of the first things is that the speed or pace of the appointment or call speeds up in the mind of the persuader and when that happens they tend to start pushing by putting pressure on the buyer, person or people involved with the project.

 

This impatience can cost sales because it is not persuasive it almost gives the feel of desperation to the buyer or investor. Everything seemed fine and then the pace of the appointment changed, the body language changes and then the voice changes.

 

Persuasion failure because of pace

The opposite of the sales call speeding up is when the salesperson or the persuader loses steam and the call starts to stall the tempo is lost and then once again there is the feel of desperation and either there is discounting involved or plenty of stalls along with negotiation. The worst of all the dreaded “I wanna think about it” may occur.  

 

This can be because the salesperson or the persuader didn’t do their homework about the client, service or product that is being sold. These issues lead to frustration and once again the buyer or client can feel the pressure and then they back away.

 

Persuasive power of voice

Now one of the items that you can work on to persuade more effectively is your voice. When there is stress in the persuasion process your voice can fail you by giving away your lack of confidence or exposing that you are confident.

 

When men or women have confidence you can feel it in their voice and also in their body language and or nonverbal communicaton. Their shoulders are up they move with smooth flow and they are relaxed.

 

Your voice is entirely different when you are relaxed vs when you are stressed or frustrated and that isnt always a good thing.

 

When you lack confidence in your abilities your voice will “leak” your position and when that happens you lose your ability to persuade effectively.

You can hear this lack of confidence on:

  • ·         The phone
  • ·         Recordings
  • ·         Live in person

 

Persuasive voice and how to get one

One of the ways to verify your persuasive voice is to record you talking something that you are passionate about or something that you are really familiar with. You will want to put that recording to the side. By the way this persuasion exercise works the best with video because you can also watch the body language of your won confidence.

 

Now on the other hand you can listen to where you lose your persuasive voice by recording you talking about something that you don’t know about and once again this persuasion exercise works the best when you use video vs just talking on audio recording.

 

The best way to make this work is to talk about the investment about or the price or larger numbers than what you are used to and say them over and over again. Now this exercise may sound funny at first but once you hear what you sound like on audio or see your body language on video you will want to practice these items to increase your persuasive selling skills fairly quickly.

 

You will want to keep these recordings whether audio or video to see how your growth as a persuader has come along. Just know that you will be amazed at what you sound like  and look like on video but get over it, its what you sound like and look like. The good news is that you always have room for improvement.

 

Learning the skills needed to influence others can take your abilities to the next level:

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the

Expert persuasion of voice control:

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

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The persuasion paradox

Expert persuasion advice: Persuasion experts can teach you many things that can help improve your life and or your sales career. Knowing what works and does not work or is not effective while persuading others happens when you live what you have learned.

 

Its applied knowledge that helps…

 

All too often salespeople who are learning to persuade take things too far and end up costing the outcome of the event and they lose.

 

When too many principals of persuasion are combined the person who they are used on can feel that something is wrong but they don’t quite know why.

 

New sales people live through the persuaders paradox and what that really means is that with all of the techniques and strategies that they have as tools that they can use it may not be clear to them the time when to introduce them or how many to use.

 

The persuaders paradox is not knowing what strategy or tactic to use or it may even be that what they have learned is not adapted to what they are persuading for. In essence either the sales person uses too much of their persuasive material or they do not use it the right way. It may very well be that they do both by using too much combined with not adapting it.

 

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Persuasion experts understand timing

Give a rookie persuader enough time out in the field and they will develop a sense of timing for what needs to be said or even the questions that need to be asked and they also know when to do so.

 

Sometimes it isn’t even about saying something it’s about knowing when to ignore a statement or even knowing when to be quiet. Silence may be one of the best persuasion tools that the experts use because it allows the mind of the perspective client to catch up or the silence puts weight on them to answer a question.

 

New or rookie persuaders have a tough time knowing what technique or strategy to introduce and they may use something out of order and then confuse the potential client. The new persuader also has a difficult time keeping their mouth shut and knowing when to be quiet.  

 

Persuasion experts expose common mistakes

There is a time to be an overachiever and there is a time to not be one. Now for some people when they are in the learning stages of persuasion they read every book , listen to every cd, attend persuasion seminars, watch dvd’s on influence. Now it’s a cool thing to learn as much as possible but there is also a point where there is too much confusion on how what they have learned works in the real world.

 

Rolling out a persuasion strategy and or tactic may not look like what was taught by the coach or the expert persuader, it may take some modifications and some massaging to make it effective for the industry or the type of client that the salesperson or the persuader is in.  

 

Now this is where role play comes in. You would want to decide what strategy or tactic that you would use to deal with a given set of circumstances. The best way to work these issues out is to video tape them and no matter how painful it is to watch take notes and determine what you think would work and what you think would not.

 

The more that you just freestyle and relax while you role play persuasion techniques and strategies the more of what you are doing will be effective. This is the best point to let your creative juices flow. There is no wrong answer, if you feel like something is working just go with it. If you feel like something is not working keep going until you feel like you get traction and are moving in a positive direction.

 

Your videotaped session will rewarding no matter how good or bad you may have thought that you were. Many times some of the best ideas for implementation will come from the biggest train wrecks while presenting. This type of role play gets easier over time and after a while may get addictive.

 

Persuaders paradox unwrapped:

The more that you make the persuasion patterns your own the easier they are to use in real life. Role play will not be enough you will have to use what you have come up with out in the field. There are two ways to go about this:

  1. 1.      Implement everything – this is a surefire recipe for disaster
  2. 2.      Implement slowly – When you start with just one idea you will know when to use it and how it works. Best of all you have the chance to learn how to time it instead of having too much material.

 

Be patient as you learn to expertly persuade others as it is a skill that is not something you “get” overnight.

 

Learning how to persuade others can be fun and informative but you must learn the basics first:

 

As Always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the persuaders paradox.

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

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Expert persuasion skills and being first

Persuasion, marketing and sales training:

When it comes to persuasion, sales training or even marketing there are times where the most simple statement  or statements can change the way you think about what you do.

 

Persuasion and or sales training sometimes is complicated just for the confusion that it creates so that coaching can be charged for.

 

Sometimes the training works and sometimes it doesn’t

 

Marketing can sometimes be the same way in the fact that there is all sorts of jargon or technical terms.

 

“There is no second place in persuasion, sales or marketing”

If you were to hear: “There is no second place in persuasion”, “There is no second place in sales” or even “There is no second place in marketing” how does that change your perspective, strategies and or tactics when dealing with potential clients, planning or the story that you are going to tell or how hard you are going to work.

 

If you are a persuader or in sales what do you have to do to ensure that every call that you run or attempt has 100% of your attention or in other words are you going with your job with passion and purpose?

 

If you have marketing that needs to be done are you really doing the research or are you just guessing? Did you run split tests or add the promotional code to your literature? Is there are way to look at the marketing piece and give it just a bunch more power of even a little more?

 

Persuasion, sales training and marketing costs plenty as it is, why not do everything that you can to do it the right way?

 

The question or statement of  “there is no second place in….” should really put into perspective what you and your sales team is up against. If you are in marketing the same goes for you.

 

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Persuasion, sales and marketing supercharged!

  • ·         What is it that you are or are not doing when it comes to your business?

 

  • ·         There are plenty of things that you know that should be done?

 

  • ·         Did you take time to write out the story and get the elements of persuasion down to be effective

 

  • ·         What do you not know how to do, or what do you not know how to do well?

 

  • ·         Who do you need to get in contact with to make the changes necessary to increase your sales or even the effectiveness of your marketing?

 

  • ·         How will you know if you have made the changes, how often will you check to make sure you are on the right path?

 

  • ·         What changes will you make when you are off path?

 

  • ·         For sales have you taped your role plays, asking your questions or even practicing rolling prices on your prices.

 

  • ·         For your marketing piece did you show it to people who may or may not be in your target market or did it just look good for you?

 

  • ·         Is the atmosphere around you relaxed while you are working with the person or people that you need to work with.

 

How to increase persuasive power and sales with practicing

Learning how to persuade or sell more requires dedication in order to get to the top. Have you practiced like you were supposed to do?

 

Whether you have been out in the field for years or not do you know what it will take to just get a few more people closed or sold out of 100? Have you had people watch your presentation from outside your industry? So you don’t have people pay someone to listen and ask questions about what you do. If your practicing doesn’t cost you now it will cost you plenty in the future.

 

Are you asking the tough questions?

 

How to increase marketing with asking questions

Most people in business think that they are a legend in their own minds and because they came up with the idea it means that it is perfect. The reality is most marketing pieces suck and reason is that most people look for beauty in the ad or the marketing piece and all too often the piece is poorly written or the ad is too perfect.

 

The same goes for sales scripts…

 

Most ads were written by people who went to college and really have not ever had to sell to figure out the words that flow well for the buyer. The elements of persuasion just are not there. Sure they win awards and are a thing of beauty but that doesn’t matter unless they convert and most of the time they do not. Most times plain is better. It’s not that a college education in marketing is bad it’s just that there is a difference between real world and what is taught in theory…

 

Those are two separate things…

 

Once you write an ad take it to a few people and let them tear it apart best off show the piece to kids and they will tell you if they understand what is going on. The average person in the United States reads and comprehends at less than an 8Th grade education. So what that means to you is your message must be very specific and understandable because you have once change and the market is very unforgiving when it comes to saying “yes” or “no” to what you do.

 

So how does all of this relate to what you do if you have to sell or persuade?

 

Everything because many times people get caught up in what they think work because its got glitz and glam…

 

How to persuade and increase sales with others opinions

People love to be asked for their opinion, just ask the question and let them rip..

 

The more that you react and try to defend your position the more that you will lose..

 

Just let them talk even if you don’t like what they have to say…

 

If you are defending what you have done you are wasting your time..

 

Ask plenty of questions that will help you clarify the wrongness of what you have done.

 

Its ok to also ask what they liked about what you did, if they say nothing thank them because if you pay for the spot or the ad and it doesn’t pull or convert you would be mad and out money. Be an adult and take what they have said and use it to get better. This advice works for marketing or even sales.

 

If you do not let the person know you wrote the ad they will be harder on you and that is what you want. If you want to take it one step further let the viewer know you paid plenty of money and you want to just “test” the piece they will tear it apart even more.

 

There is no second place only first loser in business you must do what you can to get better and either be ahead of the market or give up. The same for sales, for every good salesman or woman there is 10 people trying to learn what they can do to take your clients and the bad thing is for the most part the only thing they have is lower price…

 

That will kill their business over time…

 

The good news for you is that you have practiced and have taken the “lumps” that go along with figuring out what it takes to not be the guy or girl who loses through bad marketing or horrible persuasion techniques.

 

Persuasion and selling require patience

The great equalizer in persuasion of any kind whether spoken or even written is being calm and relaxed. When people feel rushed the answer is normally “no”. When people are relaxed they are easier to persuade because time in essence slows down. Make sure that what you do is really cool really easy..

 

Have a little fun and laugh more often.

Persuasion can be fun to learn and it easy to do is it not?

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasion for first place.

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

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How to sell more using NLP strategies

How to sell more using NLP: learning how to sell more can take you many places to learn and develop the ability to persuade others.

 

NLP was developed as a source of therapy for individuals but just about any source of therapy training can be used for more than what was intended including sales training. The great news is you can use NLP to help with your persuasion strategy.

 

How to sell more with this NLP technique

NLP is a way that you can build better rapport with others it could be defined as understanding and developing excellence but we will not be using the technical definition here. One of the items that has come in handy from the NLP field is that people gather information in 4 different ways:

  • ·         Visual
  • ·         Auditory
  • ·         Kinesthetic
  • ·         Digital

 

How to sell more using visual cues:

Visual people learn by seeing. The words that they use describe what they view. When working with a visual man or woman you could learn how to sell more using words that use visual traits.

 

How to sell more using auditory cues:

Auditory people hear the world around them. They may say things like I hear what you are saying. When communicating to a visual man or woman you would use “hearing words to describe what is going on.

 

How to sell more using kinesthetic cues:

Kinesthetic people learn by touch or feel and may use the words do you feel that or I can grasp what is going on.

 

How to sell more using digital cues:

Digital people are more of the technical like an engineer and search for the “understanding” of a situation or “consider” what is going on and do everything that they can to “make sense of” what is going on.

 

How to sell more utilizing NLP

Now from learning that people have a modality that they have as a dominate way of learning most sales training focuses on the main modality. So if a visual person were to learn from looking the focus is on saying or using visual ideas. Now this can be a challenge for the person because they still can learn from the auditory, kinesthetic and digital patterns.

 

So now what do you do?

You would combine and weave all four together and make sense of a situation better and create an easier path to persuade using NLP.

 

How to sell more using NLP descriptions:

Learning how to sell more using NLP can be done by combining what you have learned about how men and or women process their information to paint a rich picture across all 4 learning modalities.

 

Here is an example using visual, auditory, kinesthetic and digital. The words for each category will be in parenthesis and will go in order as listed previously. Using this pattern you may be able to influence others more precisely.

 

You will love the new super widget it is shiny when you (view)(visual) it and as you (listen)(auditory) to the movement you will get a (concrete feel)(kinesthetic) for how it words, as you (consider)(digital) this product (think)(digital) about what (touches you or gives you the feel)(kinesthetic) so that the idea (sounds good)(auditory) to you and you can (picture)(visual) yourself holding the new super widget.    

 

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NLP example of how to sell more:

The above example was looped so that there was not only one cross section of how people learn and feel but two, one forward and one back. Now you can use the NLP cues in any prder that you want just remember to paint the picture for you client and or buyer so that they can see what you have to offer, what you have to say about your product, how to get take it so that the product sits well with them so they can get a sense of what you do. Getting people involved mentally makes it easier to persuade them.

 

Learn to persuade others like it is a science:

Influence strategies when taught correctly can greatly increase your sales skills or even help you learn how to negotiate better. Learn from the best source right here.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about how to use NLP as a strategy to persuade others better.

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Persuasive sales techniques of other salespeople

 

Persuasive sales techniques of others: So much money is spent on sales training and while some the techniques and strategies work there are salespeople who do not bother to implement what they have learned. On the other hand there are some fantastic sales lessons out there that you can benefit from.

 

Persuasive sales techniques that don’t work

Now there are times when you walk away from a salesperson whether you are in the business or not and just shake your head wondering if they ever make any money from what they do. These are the type of salespeople who think that it’s all about scripts and the “next level” sales idea that really doesn’t work. Their sales process isn’t really cool or really easy and there at tons of sales mistakes along with lack of building rapport. It may even be that the salesperson doesn’t know how to make their buyer a hero.

 

In order for you to tune up your persuasive sales techniques and abilities you will want to watch what other sales people do wrong through their sales process and then not do whatever they did wrong. If you are in sales or have people in sales you will want to be able to convey the message of what not to do in sales so take great notes.

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Persuasive sales techniques that work

In order to get better at influencing others there are many things that you can do:

  • ·         Takes sales courses
  • ·         Pay for personal coaching by a persuasion expert
  • ·         Spend time out in the field selling
  • ·         Read books on persuasion or influence

 

Courses on sales can only go so far for you if your job is to influence people. Many times great theory it taught but the implementation of sales strategies is not.

 

You can even find a persuasion expert and pay them a good size chunk of money to help you find enlightenment in your industry. Normally this strategy pays off

 

There is something to be said from learning how to persuade others out in the field. There is a learning curve associated with working hand in hand alongside of your clients.

 

You can even buy all of the greatest books on sales training, overcoming objections, NLP, relationship building but you once again will have a long term learning curve.

 

One of the best things that you can do to learn persuasive selling skills and techniques is to watch other sales people. If they use a question in the sales process that you can use, then write it down and figure out a way to use it in your own sales process. If they ask a question that engages you write it down and find a way to implement it.

 

Sales training doesn’t have to come from a class or a course it can come from meeting and talking to other sales people in everyday interactions where you are involved or even interactions that you overhear.

 

There are plenty of places to learn new sales skills, techniques and or abilities and they will not always come from your industry.

 

Influence is a science and it takes some time to learn one of the best place to do so is right here:

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions on the persuasive sales techniques of others.

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Persuasive questioning mistakes

 

Persuasive questioning mistakes: when it comes to sales training especially the training that teaches persuasive questioning techniques there are a few items that are typically left out by the sales trainers.

 

One of the items overlooked soften is the vocal capabilities of the sales people.

 

Now this isn’t to say that this is the only item to keep an eye on but the pitch and tone does help the person that you are with to understand what you are asking or what you are saying.

 

Persuading others to your idea thoughts or beliefs is about them being comfortable not only with the idea but also with you.

 

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One of the most uncomfortable things that you can do as a salesperson is to offend the person in front of you. There are times where the persuasive questioning becomes an interrogation and the sales call is no longer really cool really easy. The feeling in the room becomes intense and the person who is the perspective client may just shut down and decide to no longer work with the salesperson.

 

Persuasive questioning made easy

Imagine you were on the other side of the table. How would you like the questions to be asked by the salesperson, not just the questions but the tone of them. Would you want them to roll out smoothly or with aggression?

 

Now this all may sound a little silly but when sales people get frustrated or when they roll into a sales slump a common issue is how they discuss items with people and then they take what would normally be a persuasive questioning strategy or technique and turn it into something evil causing a bad reaction or total rejection to the idea.

 

Reasons to watch out for the persuasive questioning mistakes

  • ·         Slows down rejection
  • ·         Helps maintain sales numbers
  • ·         Keeps a presentation interesting

 

Sales slumps are normal and there are plenty of reasons why they can happen. Making a sales slump last longer than what is needed hurts and makes sales even tougher. Recognize what changes that you can make to your process to make your life easier and your sales increase faster.

 

Persuading others for a living can take its toll on salespeople. Another common issue is to get bored with the questions that are being asked and they seem like a pain to ask while rolling off the lips of the persuader, the potential client then feels like they are not appreciated and then they stop listening or interacting in a way that is productive to the meeting. Make sure that your presentation process is fun, informative and does its job of persuading others to your ideas or thoughts instead of pushing your potential client away because of how you ask the questions.

 

When you make it seem like you have not asked the same question a million times but also show comfort and confidence when asking the persuasive question you will have an easier chance on converting the potential client to a client.  

 

Persuading others requires that you understand the fundamentals of influence, you can learn those here:

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasive questioning mistakes!

 

Now go implement!

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Persuasion expert skill of greeting

Persuasive selling skills: One of the most persuasive actions that a person can take when dealing with others is to be polite. In many instances difficult buyers may be very demanding thinking that will be the way to be overtly persuasive but that is the exact opposite of what will help them get what they want.

 

Yes a may sound simple to be a persuasive genius just by being polite but it does help more than you would imagine.

 

If you were having to help someone through a difficult situation whether personal or business would you be willing to help a person who is difficult the same amount for a person who is calm and rational but firm?

 

Now there are ways where you can play into this persuasive selling skill covertly and the powers can help you in the long run.

 

Being polite to others cause the person who is helping you to mostly be polite back. So you also ask how does that help you make more sales just rom being polite?

 

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The answer lies in mental real estate + being polite.

 

Persuasive selling skill the introduction

A persuasive selling skill in action: When was the last time that someone how are you? This question happens millions of time a day.

 

And your response was fine, ok, doing good or any other response that you can give.

 

But what if there was a more persuasive way to answer that question that gets the other person to give you a little more attention would it be worth knowing.

 

Now in order for this persuasive selling skill and technique to work you will have to use some of the laws of English for your benefit.

 

The correct answer for “How are you doing”? is “well, thank you very much, and how have you been”?

 

Now this may not sound like a formula to make more sales covertly or even take over the world but there is something to this answer that gets people to pay attention to what you are about to say.

 

Ok, so you may not believe this but you will not get a persuasive sales technique homework assignment that will cost you nothing but benefit you greatly.

 

Persuasive selling skills assignment

The next time that you are in line you can practice this persuasive selling skills technique. You must pay attention to how the clerk or salesperson has treated and talked to the person in front of you while you were in line.

 

You will listen for the responses that are given when the clerk or salesperson asks “how are you”? This new information will allow you to see what you can do just by changing a few words.

 

When it is your time up at the counter or with the salesperson you response to the question “How are you”? is now to say “I am doing quite well today and how have you been”?

 

So this does not sound very earth shattering when it comes to asking a question but please do not discount the power of intentional subtle influence (ISI) when it comes to your ability to persuade.

 

If you have watched enough people answer you to “I am doing quite well” just by itself you will find that they answer you back using proper English for the most part by answering you the same exact way.

 

You may also notice that the person that you are dealing with may stand up straighter and deliver their answer with more emphasis than their conversation with you previously.

 

Persuasive selling skills expertly executed

Absolutely crazy that they will answer you back in a way that they have not been answering people all day long and chances are that when you walk away they will not answer the question the same exact way at all until someone else answers “quite well thank you very much”.

 

Now there is a second part to this that you may not have caught and that is to ask the person “How have you been”?

 

Your best bet is to just say it with confidence just like it was part of your everyday conversation. The more that you put emphasis on “how have you been”? the more that the question does not work for you it will eventually work against you.

 

Persuasive selling skill – The law of conditioned response

This one question holds more power than what you would guess or figure for a few reasons. First you must think about the Law of conditioned response. This law states then when you use the same language of a friend or relative in a relationship a stranger will do the same. In essence this reaction is a shortcut into the backdoor of their brain for trust and relationships.

 

When you ask someone “How have you been”? it implies that you have met the person before, they are a friend or they are a relative.

 

So how does this help you expertly persuade others?

 

Great question and it is perfectly normal for you to think that and a very smart one by the way…

 

When you wire your persuasive message in a way where you can break down some barriers without having to do some work you are in a position to win a little easier.

 

Just travel down this path for a second you meet with someone that you want to be able to expertly persuade but they have met with other salespeople or consultants who may have caused them to build up a resistance to your message without even meeting you.

 

You enter into the meeting and ask the person who has all of the control and the money that you want in their pocket and you must expertly persuade them to get it from them “How have you been”? Their brain now has to search to determine if you have met before. You are taking advantage of a lazy brain because it is easier for the brain of the man or woman who you are meeting to say “We have met somewhere but I am embarrassed to ask where, but I know we have met and I know I should remember so now I am going to have to try and figure all of this out before he realizes that I have no clue who he or she is”.

 

This brain hack takes the pressure off of you to give some information to the buyer or potential client and give you a persuasive sales skills that allows you to be an expert a maneuvering around some built up animosity towards sales people.

 

Persuasive sales skills that can go bad

Now it does take some time to learn how to use this persuasive sales skill. There are also people who this expert tactic will not work on and they may catch onto what you are doing but chances are they will not. In many instances this technique will not work well with more than one possibly two people so groups of people are out because you cannot ask them this question individually. You will also have to play with the timing of how you ask this question as to get it right.

 

Persuasive sales skills that can go right

You can learn how to persuade like an expert but you will have to put some effort into what you are doing from here on out. Expert persuaders know that the tactics and strategies must be done in conjunction of proper body language and enunciation for the words that are used.

 

When asking people “How have you been”? first just watch to see how people react out in a store where there is no real downside for you or in other words no harm that can come from your message. After 50- 100 attempts work this message into your sales calls. Since you really want to have success in what you do you will take the time when out shopping to use the question of “how have you been” to your advantage.    

 

Persuasive selling skill transformed

The words that you use may or may not have great weight to them when you use them. Your inflection counts, your body language counts and your overall interaction with your potential client counts and now just for fun add in your personality.

 

One of the biggest challenges that salespeople face in the persuasion process is that they become experts at their script but forget to add in their own personality. Remember that in order to persuade effectively your personality must be present.

 

Persuasive selling techniques and skills, how to learn more

Learn how to persuade others with expert abilities and confidence, your best source to learn persuasive selling skills and techniques can be done here

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuading others expertly.  

 

Now go implement!

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

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