The power of a hot seat panel

 

 

The power of a hot seat panel

Hot seats are an event within an event usually at seminars. The premise is there is a panel of experts who listen to a business owner or entrepreneur explain a problem or problems they wish to have solved. Once the panel hears what is going on they prescribe the “fixes” that could take place in order to increase business.

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The hot seats can include people on the panel from all sorts of different business sectors or industries. This helps the answers vary and may give insights maybe not expected from the business person or entrepreneur who is being advised by the panel. It could very well be the person on the hot seat is a rookie when it comes to business or even that “hard core” guy who has been around forever but just has one of those problems or issues that just keep popping up.

 

So what does this have to do with you and your business?

 

Everything…

 

Chet Holmes used to say “there are only so many fundamentals”. This quote applies any industry or any service.

 

When you get the chance to sit in on a “hot seat” whether for”

  • ·         Sales
  • ·         Marketing
  • ·         Production
  • ·         Business development

 

You will find that something applies to what you do or could have an impact on your own growth.

 

The experts on the panel have a different view as to what is going on and many times have been involved in different industries. They key here is that as issues happen in our own lives we tend to focus on what is around us and stop looking for the things or items a little further out that could help business.

 

The sad thing is that for many people in the audience do not think that what they are hearing applies to them. This couldn’t be further from the truth. The information given in the “hot seats” are pure gold most of the time because more than likely what is said applies to what you are doing somehow. The problem for many is that it takes just a little more thought than normal to figure out how to make it work for you.

 

So the panel has a question about marketing?

Maybe it really doesn’t apply to what you do but it may in the future.

 

Next the panel has a question about sales…

 

And sales can always apply to what you do. It could very well be that the salesperson is struggling. If the sales person is having issues you may want to take notes because more than likely someone in your own organization is having or will have the same struggle.

 

The cool thing about hot seats are that they give you a heads up of what to look for or they can help you see some of the challenges in your own organization.

 

Sometimes the information that you hear and gather may have to sit dormant in your brain for later use and implementation, this is why it is a good idea to make sure you take notes as to what is going on and the recommendations made by the panel.

 

Next level hot seats

One of the things you will see in just about any seminar or class is the dead silence that happens when the floor is opened for questions.

 

Many times business people do not want to look dumb in front of their peers so they will forgo the information that could be gathered to help propel business into the stratosphere.

 

Think about this for a moment:

 

Most of the experts who are on these hot seat panels charge a fairly hefty sum of Moolah to have a conversation with outside of the seminar setting and for some of them that is if you could get through to the “gatekeeper” on any given day.

 

It’s never a good idea to think that most of the business people know the fundamentals as to what they do for a job.

 

Let’s take this “hot seat” example and amp it up a few notches for you the next time you get a chance.

 

Some people are scared to death to talk to one of these “experts” because they may think badly towards the business practices being performed in the real life…

 

So what is a smart business person to do?

 

Go up and compliment the “expert” from the hot seat on what they said. Now this works because who in their right mind doesn’t like a well placed compliment. Now many times this opens up the doors for you to have a conversation about what you do. Almost every time this plays out the expert will have to ask about what you do for work and then they usually ask about what you learned on the hot seat.

 

This strategy works well if you are comfortable talking to strangers or even if you are scared to ask your question.

 

If you are not first you are last

Any time you plan to go to a seminar where you can “rub elbows” with some experts you should have some questions you want to have answered about your business or industry lined out. The more thought you put into what you want to know specifically the better chance you have of gathering excellent information for growth.

 

If you are ready for the questions you should be the first person to volunteer to get put on the “hot seat” and do so quickly. Usually the first person up gets the best amount of time and gets the best advice. Plenty of people in the room will squirm at the thought of having to be in front of the room but who would you rather have judge you: people you will never see again for the most part who could help you grow your business or team or your potential clients you spend hefty amounts of marketing money to get your hands on?

 

Most people will answer the experts but a few will sit struggling and “lead a life of quiet desperation”.

 

Your best option is to show up prepared with question you want to have answered even if there is no hot seat at the event.

 

Just think for a moment:

 

If you could ask just one question you have been dying to ask an expert in your industry or field what would it be?

 

Figure out at least 5 of these questions and write them on index cards before you go to your event. Keep them in your pocket and rank them from 1-5. Why 5 cards instead of 10? That is because there isn’t enough focus with that many questions. You also want to show the expert you are asking a question to that you have prepared enough to take his or her time. Normally when you show preparation the expert will be more willing to give you advice.

 

Now there will be times where the person you ask a question to doesn’t want to play ball and answer questions or talk to you, that is ok. Find someone else to ask the questions to but always be gracious and thank people for their time.

 

Relationships and advice

Now let’s just say you met the person on the hot seat you wanted and you got that special advice where you can take your business to the next level now what?

 

You do the smart thing and send them a hand written “Thank You!” card. No an email will not work so don’t think it’s worth it. Here is the really important part, expect nothing to ever happen once they get the card. You send it because it is the right thing to do. If you imagine the “expert” wanting to hang out after the event just because you sent a card it is ok to stop thinking that right now.

 

Always take the time to think out the questions you want to or need to ask and normally you get rewarded.

 

If you get a chance to be the “guy” or “girl” in the position for the hot seat jump on it as fast as possible and volunteer first.

 

Just remember even if you are not in a related field listen to the examples and figure out how to make the information work for you. Who knows you may very well grab that hidden elusive nugget of information you have been looking for.

 

Now go implement!

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

Connect on twitter @scottsbell

Influence vs persuasion what is the difference

Influence vs persuasion:

There is a common question when it comes to influence and persuasion and that is what is the difference between the two categories or are they the same thing?

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When it comes to influence that would be the master category above all else. Another way to explain the difference between the two could be explained as persuasion would be a title in the series of encyclopedias while influence would be the domain over all of the encyclopedias. Each element would build up to the progression of influence.  

 

So how does all of this help you in your daily life?

 

When you have a meeting or a sales call it is good to know what persuasion tactic or strategy that you will use to help influence the person or the people that you are meeting.

 

In some instances when you are limited on time or even space in copy it becomes even more important to design out your message so that it is effective. This means you must take the time to design a proper message that will help you win the position or the business that you are looking for.

 

How to use persuasion ineffectively

A common mistake that people make when it comes to gaining attention from a person or a group is to use too many persuasive messages in the allotted time and the brain becomes suspicious about what is being said and starts saying “no” to the message. The thought of overloading the message is that the time used to influence the person or group will need as many elements as possible to get to yes. Another way to explain this is that more is not always necessarily better when it comes to getting to a “yes” victory.

 

If you have a common place or time in your meeting where people start to reject the message it may mean that you have overloaded the message or used too many strategies or tactics to try and get to a “yes”. It may also mean that your message that is being delivered is not well thought out and could be confusing.

 

A person of influence knows how to use the message, idea, strategy or tactic when needed and when not to use the same type of message.  

 

The influencer’s toolbox

If the total knowledge of your ability to persuade people were tools in a toolbox there would be plenty to list. Just like a mechanic does not use every tool in his toolbox to work on every process or item when people have their car fixed you will not want to use everything that you know in one sitting to get the people or person to your way of thinking.

 

The processes, strategies and tactics take a little time to learn so it is best to start slow.  If you are new to influencing others use one persuasion tactic or strategy and get good at it and then add another one in.

 

One of the best ways to learn how to use your new abilities is role playing them out with someone who understands your industry or buyer while they are being videotaped. Now this process may be painful in the beginning because you may not be used to seeing yourself on film. There is however an added bonus from watching yourself and criticizing your message while watching it and that is you will find your “holes” in your message. You may also find that you have issues with your body language and or that you are using too many filler words like “um, and or you know what I mean”.

 

Learning how to craft a persuasive message that will influence others to get them to see your way of thinking does take time to learn .

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your questions and or comments.

 

Now go implement!

 

Scott S. Bell

 

Connect on twitter:

@scottsbell

 

Persuasive power of video and edge rank

 

Persuading others or using the influence process using video is not a new process even if you are on Facebook. If you watch anything on the television or internet that is in video format you are wacthing video marketing at work. Some examples of video marketing are: 

  • ·         A cartoon
  • ·         Infomercial
  • ·         Sitcom
  • ·         The nightly news
  • ·         A commercial on television or the internet
  • ·         A YouTube video

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If you have any of this information on your Facebook page and you get interation you may be increasing your edgerank.

As you are watching influence through the use of video, you are watching video marketing in process. The brain processes video easily and it is an easy format to produce with technological advances. 20 years ago it took tons of money to get a video made now with a computer and freeware you can produce a compelling video for less than $100.

 

Social media strategists are the experts that help guide you through the process of determining what information is relevant vs the information that is just busy work, out of play or irrelevant. Deb Cole is a front line disseminator of information that will introduce you to a new social media term that will be a guideline to follow when it comes to reaching better ranking and or getting people to your website and or social pages.

 

The next generation of rating on the Facebook will be Edgerank or how much interaction that your page through interaction  on Twitter, Pinterest, YouTube channel or any other site where social interaction is made that can be connected to your Facebook page. So think about what your strategy will be if you have a business page or even personal page to get people to interact with you.

So why is video a compelling way to communicate with your reader or your viewer, tribe or an interested party. The reason is that it takes less effort to watch a video than it does to read it. A video can be watched or listened to and if it is compelling or funny it is easier to make it go viral than having to read information. If someone is on your page they may leave a comment or they may even share the video or picture capturing more interaction on your behalf.

 

Edgerank will be the term that gets used more in the coming months because it will be the indicator of how viable your information is on Facebook. Remember you will want people who land on your page or site to interact with you. That interaction can come from a few types of actions:

  • ·         Questions about the day, events or the content on your page / site
  • ·         Comments that could be considered inflammatory
  • ·         Contests
  • ·         A new idea that is revolutionary
  • ·         A review of a new product or idea
  • ·         A review of another video / website

 

Compelling information is what keeps people captivated and that captivation is what makes the information that is given social. Social media requires interaction and the more relevant and compelling the information is the more interaction that you will get. The more quality interaction that you get the better your Edge rank will be and with that ranking the higher that your site or page moves up in ranking.

 

The ultimate goal is to rank pages built on trust not just really good S.E.O. The ranking comes from the relevant interaction by likes, shares and general times people interact with you.

 

To the good questions so what does all of this have to do with persuading others? Everything because if you want the viable traffic to come to your site, to your page or to have Facebook belief in trusting you then the Edge rank will be ever so relevant. Remember your job is to get people to interact with you as much as possible just like you would with your friends. No interaction and Facebook says “you don’t have friends” or “the information is not relevant”.  Quality becomes far more important than quality does when it comes to persuasion and when it comes to the ranking.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions.

 

Contacting Deb Cole is easy:

Http://www.coachdeb.tv

@coachdeb on twitter

 

Now go implement!

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

Connect on twitter:

@scottsbell

Persuasion and the first rule of vocal rapport

Persuasion and the first rule of rapport: Every effective persuader looks for any advantage that they can get their hands on that will work. The broken or bad strategies and tactics of old are known by buyers and they even will tell them to you as they are being rolled out.

 

Rapport and mirroring are misunderstood elements of NLP that cause many problems from persuaders because they are done wrong. Mirroring men or women is effective when done the right way. Building rapport can be effective but when the other person has issues with you rapport can only go so far.

 

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The first rule of rapport

The first rule of rapport is really two items and that is a mirroring action of the other person and then the use of voice. Similarities in not just a mirroring action but also the voice will help you gain rapport with the person that you are meeting with and in the end may help your persuasive abilities.

 

On the phone the first rule of rapport does help and that is to talk at about the same volume and or speed as the person that you are on the phone with since that is really the only way that you can mirror them. Just remember that your actions for nonverbal and vocal mirroring should be similar but not exactly the same.

 

You may be wondering if people will think you are a fraud but the reality is that most people are so caught up in their own world they will not even pay attention.

 

Rapport gone wrong

Now you may do everything that you can to mirror the man or the woman that you want to persuade but if you do something wrong such as talking too fast or too loud you may have that person walk away.

 

New salespeople have this issue when they get too excited about the product or service that they sell and this creates a mismatch. Over excitement about selling a product and uneasiness of the buyer will cause a “no” or an “I wanna think about it”.

 

The same problems with rapport may happen if the hopeful persuader talks too low or too slow compared to the person who that are hoping to influence.

 

Persuasion, rapport and similarities

Nonverbally you know when a man or woman is in rapport with you through pacing and leading. When you are leading the person will do similar actions that you do like folding your arms or shaking heads in a similar action, when you are pacing they are the one who sets the tone for you. You can do the same with you voice if you slowly start building the speed or slowing how fast you are talking or even with the volume.

 

You have the most amount of persuasive power as the leader instead of the pacer so it’s important to remember that you should keep “time” on your pacing and leading so that you spend more time in “charge”.

 

Remember that the persuasion doesn’t always happen instantly and in most instances it takes time and patience.

 

Learning how to influence others is a great skill to learn not just for business but also for personal life.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasion and the first rule of rapport.

 

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Persuasion expert Scott Sylvan Bell explains persuasion and the first rule of rapport: Video credit

Expert persuasion of voice

Expert persuasion with voice control: Persuaders have plenty of things to think about and deal with while working on projects to get to a “yes”.

 

Persuasion fails when these issues happen

  • ·         The call speeds up
  • ·         The call slows down
  •           Lack of confidence
  • ·         The vocal patterns of questions and statements are wrong

 

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Persuasion failure because of speed

There are a few typical issues that happen while people are in “sales mode” and one of the first things is that the speed or pace of the appointment or call speeds up in the mind of the persuader and when that happens they tend to start pushing by putting pressure on the buyer, person or people involved with the project.

 

This impatience can cost sales because it is not persuasive it almost gives the feel of desperation to the buyer or investor. Everything seemed fine and then the pace of the appointment changed, the body language changes and then the voice changes.

 

Persuasion failure because of pace

The opposite of the sales call speeding up is when the salesperson or the persuader loses steam and the call starts to stall the tempo is lost and then once again there is the feel of desperation and either there is discounting involved or plenty of stalls along with negotiation. The worst of all the dreaded “I wanna think about it” may occur.  

 

This can be because the salesperson or the persuader didn’t do their homework about the client, service or product that is being sold. These issues lead to frustration and once again the buyer or client can feel the pressure and then they back away.

 

Persuasive power of voice

Now one of the items that you can work on to persuade more effectively is your voice. When there is stress in the persuasion process your voice can fail you by giving away your lack of confidence or exposing that you are confident.

 

When men or women have confidence you can feel it in their voice and also in their body language and or nonverbal communicaton. Their shoulders are up they move with smooth flow and they are relaxed.

 

Your voice is entirely different when you are relaxed vs when you are stressed or frustrated and that isnt always a good thing.

 

When you lack confidence in your abilities your voice will “leak” your position and when that happens you lose your ability to persuade effectively.

You can hear this lack of confidence on:

  • ·         The phone
  • ·         Recordings
  • ·         Live in person

 

Persuasive voice and how to get one

One of the ways to verify your persuasive voice is to record you talking something that you are passionate about or something that you are really familiar with. You will want to put that recording to the side. By the way this persuasion exercise works the best with video because you can also watch the body language of your won confidence.

 

Now on the other hand you can listen to where you lose your persuasive voice by recording you talking about something that you don’t know about and once again this persuasion exercise works the best when you use video vs just talking on audio recording.

 

The best way to make this work is to talk about the investment about or the price or larger numbers than what you are used to and say them over and over again. Now this exercise may sound funny at first but once you hear what you sound like on audio or see your body language on video you will want to practice these items to increase your persuasive selling skills fairly quickly.

 

You will want to keep these recordings whether audio or video to see how your growth as a persuader has come along. Just know that you will be amazed at what you sound like  and look like on video but get over it, its what you sound like and look like. The good news is that you always have room for improvement.

 

Learning the skills needed to influence others can take your abilities to the next level:

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the

Expert persuasion of voice control:

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

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The persuasion paradox

Expert persuasion advice: Persuasion experts can teach you many things that can help improve your life and or your sales career. Knowing what works and does not work or is not effective while persuading others happens when you live what you have learned.

 

Its applied knowledge that helps…

 

All too often salespeople who are learning to persuade take things too far and end up costing the outcome of the event and they lose.

 

When too many principals of persuasion are combined the person who they are used on can feel that something is wrong but they don’t quite know why.

 

New sales people live through the persuaders paradox and what that really means is that with all of the techniques and strategies that they have as tools that they can use it may not be clear to them the time when to introduce them or how many to use.

 

The persuaders paradox is not knowing what strategy or tactic to use or it may even be that what they have learned is not adapted to what they are persuading for. In essence either the sales person uses too much of their persuasive material or they do not use it the right way. It may very well be that they do both by using too much combined with not adapting it.

 

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Persuasion experts understand timing

Give a rookie persuader enough time out in the field and they will develop a sense of timing for what needs to be said or even the questions that need to be asked and they also know when to do so.

 

Sometimes it isn’t even about saying something it’s about knowing when to ignore a statement or even knowing when to be quiet. Silence may be one of the best persuasion tools that the experts use because it allows the mind of the perspective client to catch up or the silence puts weight on them to answer a question.

 

New or rookie persuaders have a tough time knowing what technique or strategy to introduce and they may use something out of order and then confuse the potential client. The new persuader also has a difficult time keeping their mouth shut and knowing when to be quiet.  

 

Persuasion experts expose common mistakes

There is a time to be an overachiever and there is a time to not be one. Now for some people when they are in the learning stages of persuasion they read every book , listen to every cd, attend persuasion seminars, watch dvd’s on influence. Now it’s a cool thing to learn as much as possible but there is also a point where there is too much confusion on how what they have learned works in the real world.

 

Rolling out a persuasion strategy and or tactic may not look like what was taught by the coach or the expert persuader, it may take some modifications and some massaging to make it effective for the industry or the type of client that the salesperson or the persuader is in.  

 

Now this is where role play comes in. You would want to decide what strategy or tactic that you would use to deal with a given set of circumstances. The best way to work these issues out is to video tape them and no matter how painful it is to watch take notes and determine what you think would work and what you think would not.

 

The more that you just freestyle and relax while you role play persuasion techniques and strategies the more of what you are doing will be effective. This is the best point to let your creative juices flow. There is no wrong answer, if you feel like something is working just go with it. If you feel like something is not working keep going until you feel like you get traction and are moving in a positive direction.

 

Your videotaped session will rewarding no matter how good or bad you may have thought that you were. Many times some of the best ideas for implementation will come from the biggest train wrecks while presenting. This type of role play gets easier over time and after a while may get addictive.

 

Persuaders paradox unwrapped:

The more that you make the persuasion patterns your own the easier they are to use in real life. Role play will not be enough you will have to use what you have come up with out in the field. There are two ways to go about this:

  1. 1.      Implement everything – this is a surefire recipe for disaster
  2. 2.      Implement slowly – When you start with just one idea you will know when to use it and how it works. Best of all you have the chance to learn how to time it instead of having too much material.

 

Be patient as you learn to expertly persuade others as it is a skill that is not something you “get” overnight.

 

Learning how to persuade others can be fun and informative but you must learn the basics first:

 

As Always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the persuaders paradox.

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

Persuasion expert Scott Sylvan Bell explains the persuasion paradox: Video credit

Expert persuasion skills and being first

Persuasion, marketing and sales training:

When it comes to persuasion, sales training or even marketing there are times where the most simple statement  or statements can change the way you think about what you do.

 

Persuasion and or sales training sometimes is complicated just for the confusion that it creates so that coaching can be charged for.

 

Sometimes the training works and sometimes it doesn’t

 

Marketing can sometimes be the same way in the fact that there is all sorts of jargon or technical terms.

 

“There is no second place in persuasion, sales or marketing”

If you were to hear: “There is no second place in persuasion”, “There is no second place in sales” or even “There is no second place in marketing” how does that change your perspective, strategies and or tactics when dealing with potential clients, planning or the story that you are going to tell or how hard you are going to work.

 

If you are a persuader or in sales what do you have to do to ensure that every call that you run or attempt has 100% of your attention or in other words are you going with your job with passion and purpose?

 

If you have marketing that needs to be done are you really doing the research or are you just guessing? Did you run split tests or add the promotional code to your literature? Is there are way to look at the marketing piece and give it just a bunch more power of even a little more?

 

Persuasion, sales training and marketing costs plenty as it is, why not do everything that you can to do it the right way?

 

The question or statement of  “there is no second place in….” should really put into perspective what you and your sales team is up against. If you are in marketing the same goes for you.

 

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Persuasion, sales and marketing supercharged!

  • ·         What is it that you are or are not doing when it comes to your business?

 

  • ·         There are plenty of things that you know that should be done?

 

  • ·         Did you take time to write out the story and get the elements of persuasion down to be effective

 

  • ·         What do you not know how to do, or what do you not know how to do well?

 

  • ·         Who do you need to get in contact with to make the changes necessary to increase your sales or even the effectiveness of your marketing?

 

  • ·         How will you know if you have made the changes, how often will you check to make sure you are on the right path?

 

  • ·         What changes will you make when you are off path?

 

  • ·         For sales have you taped your role plays, asking your questions or even practicing rolling prices on your prices.

 

  • ·         For your marketing piece did you show it to people who may or may not be in your target market or did it just look good for you?

 

  • ·         Is the atmosphere around you relaxed while you are working with the person or people that you need to work with.

 

How to increase persuasive power and sales with practicing

Learning how to persuade or sell more requires dedication in order to get to the top. Have you practiced like you were supposed to do?

 

Whether you have been out in the field for years or not do you know what it will take to just get a few more people closed or sold out of 100? Have you had people watch your presentation from outside your industry? So you don’t have people pay someone to listen and ask questions about what you do. If your practicing doesn’t cost you now it will cost you plenty in the future.

 

Are you asking the tough questions?

 

How to increase marketing with asking questions

Most people in business think that they are a legend in their own minds and because they came up with the idea it means that it is perfect. The reality is most marketing pieces suck and reason is that most people look for beauty in the ad or the marketing piece and all too often the piece is poorly written or the ad is too perfect.

 

The same goes for sales scripts…

 

Most ads were written by people who went to college and really have not ever had to sell to figure out the words that flow well for the buyer. The elements of persuasion just are not there. Sure they win awards and are a thing of beauty but that doesn’t matter unless they convert and most of the time they do not. Most times plain is better. It’s not that a college education in marketing is bad it’s just that there is a difference between real world and what is taught in theory…

 

Those are two separate things…

 

Once you write an ad take it to a few people and let them tear it apart best off show the piece to kids and they will tell you if they understand what is going on. The average person in the United States reads and comprehends at less than an 8Th grade education. So what that means to you is your message must be very specific and understandable because you have once change and the market is very unforgiving when it comes to saying “yes” or “no” to what you do.

 

So how does all of this relate to what you do if you have to sell or persuade?

 

Everything because many times people get caught up in what they think work because its got glitz and glam…

 

How to persuade and increase sales with others opinions

People love to be asked for their opinion, just ask the question and let them rip..

 

The more that you react and try to defend your position the more that you will lose..

 

Just let them talk even if you don’t like what they have to say…

 

If you are defending what you have done you are wasting your time..

 

Ask plenty of questions that will help you clarify the wrongness of what you have done.

 

Its ok to also ask what they liked about what you did, if they say nothing thank them because if you pay for the spot or the ad and it doesn’t pull or convert you would be mad and out money. Be an adult and take what they have said and use it to get better. This advice works for marketing or even sales.

 

If you do not let the person know you wrote the ad they will be harder on you and that is what you want. If you want to take it one step further let the viewer know you paid plenty of money and you want to just “test” the piece they will tear it apart even more.

 

There is no second place only first loser in business you must do what you can to get better and either be ahead of the market or give up. The same for sales, for every good salesman or woman there is 10 people trying to learn what they can do to take your clients and the bad thing is for the most part the only thing they have is lower price…

 

That will kill their business over time…

 

The good news for you is that you have practiced and have taken the “lumps” that go along with figuring out what it takes to not be the guy or girl who loses through bad marketing or horrible persuasion techniques.

 

Persuasion and selling require patience

The great equalizer in persuasion of any kind whether spoken or even written is being calm and relaxed. When people feel rushed the answer is normally “no”. When people are relaxed they are easier to persuade because time in essence slows down. Make sure that what you do is really cool really easy..

 

Have a little fun and laugh more often.

Persuasion can be fun to learn and it easy to do is it not?

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about persuasion for first place.

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

Persuasion expert Scott Sylvan Bell shares Expert persuasion skills and being first :Video credit